Tuesday, December 28, 2010
A Note About My Blog...
Enjoy looking thru my posts, dating back to 2005. Watch for new posts. I did not bring all of my posts over from MySpace, just the ones that appeared somewhat relevant or interesting. If you want to attempt to see the MySpace blog, it is located at http://www.myspace.com/harryoke/blog.
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H.
Saturday, November 27, 2010
The Story Of Tiny - 1995 - 2010 - A Good Dog
On Monday, November 22, 2010, I had the unfortunate responsibility of having our loving dog Tiny put to sleep due to complications from old age. Many of you have heard of her, or met her during visits to my home. Now that she is gone, she will never be forgotten. Her story deserves to be told.
“Tiny” was a German Shepherd – Border Collie mix born on January 24, 1995 in Gloversville, NY, of a litter of 6 pups. Her owner put the pups out for adoption, and Tiny was adopted by a man that ended up being an irresponsible pet owner. He did not treat her very well, and kept her tied up in his kitchen. She would break free and run away.
In May or June of 95, Lori and her 3 kids were walking through Gloversville on their way home, when they met Tiny standing on the corner of the main intersection in town. Tiny followed them home, and at the insistence of the children, was taken in. With the 4 of them living in a 2 bedroom apartment, there was not a lot of room for a dog, not to mention the cost, so Lori put an ad in the Pennysaver to try to find the owner. A woman responded to Lori’s ad, and mentioned that the dog sounded like one from her litter, and asked her to call her “Tiny”. When Lori called, Tiny came bounding into the room confirming her identity. The girl mentioned that the owner was not the best, and asked if Lori would consider keeping the dog.
In August of 1995, Lori, the kids and Tiny packed a Uhaul trailer and were picked up by Loris parents in their cargo van (the spare cargo van that I now own). They took up residence in a rental home in DeLand, and Lori got a job working at the same place that I was working at the time; that is how Lori and I met.
Around January of 97, I started hanging out at Lori’s house…watching movies and eating dinners. I was not really impressed with the dog so much, as she had a bit of a crazy streak, no training and was not really fond of men. Tiny had never been given the luxury of training, obedience, a regular consistent routine, or the presence of an “alpha dog” in her life. This is where I came in. I was consistent in my treatment to her and she began to warm up to me. I began taking her for regular walks…she would pull madly on the way out, and then calm down on the way home. Tiny had NEVER been outside off of a leash except for the times she would get out of the house and run away. Lori had neighbors with fenced German shepherds and Tiny used to love to run out and aggravate them…crossing a busy road in the process. Once, Lori had neighbors keeping chickens in the yard, and Tiny got loose and legend has it she allegedly killed one. To this day, we joke about the 2 children that lived there, who were the only English speakers, relaying the story of the super dog that killed the chicken, LOL! (One of those “yahadda be there” things, LOL).
In June of 98, I bought the house that is basically across the street from where Lori was renting. I moved her, the kids, the dog and myself in shortly afterwards. The first thing I did was to fence off the back yard, securing an area for Tiny to be out without a leash. This was the only time she had ever known being off a leash, yet under control. I also continued with daily walks and routines. She became known at the neighborhood convenience store where I would take her, tie her up at the front door and the customers that would not be intimidated would visit with her. I shocked Lori when she came home with the kids and found me washing my car in the front yard, with Tiny off the leash lying in the grass watching me. This was the start of the payoff of my efforts. She was really responding well to me and her new routine and freedoms. Lori’s parents and family, who had heard the wild stories of a wilder Tiny even had to comment on this when they came over to visit and saw the new calmer Tiny. I like to joke and say that Tiny was the Lulu to my Sidney Poitier, referencing the movie “To Sir With Love” in which Sidney’s character transforms bratty British school kids into more proper ladies and gentlemen.
Tiny was never what you would call an affectionate dog. She became less aggressive for sure, but was never the cuddly dog that would get on a couch with you or lay in your lap, BUT she was playful with those she loved. She had the best bond with Jacky, Lori and myself. Jacky was always Tiny’s greatest champion in her youth, Lori had always been the provider and the mommy, and I was the alpha dog. One of my favorite pictures of Tiny is one I took in the yard while I was winding her up, and getting her into an attack pose, and then I shot her picture. It is very definitive of her in her youth.
In August of 2003, Foster, our Catahoula, came to join us. Tiny had always kind of ruled the roost, and it was interesting to see how this was going to pan out. After about a day, they seemed to be getting along famously. We decided to keep Foster, and Tiny had a good hand in showing him the ropes. He became very respectful of her. They shared food and water bowls and never argued over portion or dominance. They became a very good team, him being more of the rock star and attention seeker, and her more placid to be in the shadows observing. Given that she was already 8, going on 9 years old when Foster arrived, I am sure that his being around kept her young much longer.
Life together was great, and for the most part uneventful. Tiny, Foster and I went for daily walks. I never even put Tiny on a leash. She would walk all around with me and stay close enough and be obedient enough to trust off leash. Everyone in our neighborhood knew the three of us from our daily walks. Many of the people at the local businesses would come out and visit us, or ask about the dogs if they saw me without them. They loved going for rides in the van with me, and in the pickup truck around the neighborhood. When we would have the bonfires at the house, the dogs always stuck around and played host to the strangers in our backyard! That amazed me.
The year 2010 was not a great one for Tiny. Her years were catching up to her. She was slowing down physically…the will was there, but the body was not as able. She suffered a few seizures. Each time she had a seizure, we were sure that she was either going to die, or that we would have to euthanize her. The seizure days were very sad times for all of us. Remarkably, she recovered each time. The last time, she appeared to lose the ability of wagging her tail, which bugged me out a little. I always loved her tail wags when I came home, and it was odd not seeing them. I was still spending outdoor time with both dogs 3 times a day; when I woke up, before leaving for work, and when I got home from work. Tiny was also beginning to have issues with her back legs freezing up. Occasionally, she would be dragging her legs while walking. When I had to carry her back home part of the way, I stopped taking her on the daily walk with Foster.
On one of the walks after her last seizure, someone said something to me very profound, worthy of repeating. I had taken Tiny outside with no intention of taking her for the walk, and she decided on her own she was going. I grabbed Foster and allowed Tiny to walk with us. She was a little wobbly, but she wanted to do it, and she did it. A neighbor came out and said, “I thought she just had a stroke?” I explained that she did indeed and he said, “Well, I guess no one tells dogs they are supposed to be sick.” That was absolute pure truth.
Toward the end, Tiny was having a harder time navigating on the smooth wood floors…her muscles having a harder time lifting, and holder her up. Most of the time once she got going and outside, she would respond better…but needing help up the steps, etc… This regressed more than progressed. When she got to where she was unable to get up to ask to go out, and falling over outside and unable to get up, we knew a decision had to be made.
I called Lori’s Mom who works at the Vet we go to, and made an appointment for Tiny to get some peace and dignity. I spent the last hour with her in the front yard with her and Foster. She for the most part just wanted to lie in the grass. When the time came to leave, I put Foster in the house, and carried Tiny to the van. She rode on a blanket, and was alert for her last ride…seemingly enjoying being in her van one more time. I documented this with my camera, taking pictures of her smiling…a look I had not seen for awhile. I carried her into the exam room and had a final visit…hugging her to keep her warm from the cold of the table. Rosemary and Doc came in and took their positions, while I remained in front of her eyes, bidding her a final farewell, and assuring her everything was cool. She had a placid look on her face when she drew her final breath.
There is a void in my home and my heart. There has never NOT been a Tiny with Lori, or in my house, or in Foster’s world. I know I did the right thing, but that was much harder than if she had passed in her sleep. No one wants to make that decision, or take that drive. I would not wish it on anyone. I was really hoping to avoid it, but now that all is done, I am sure I did the right thing…not happy about it, but I am happy that I have given her the dignity to not have to suffer or lose her quality of life in her old age by making her linger.
That is the story of Tiny, a good dog… thanks for letting me tell it and for hearing it.
Wednesday, November 17, 2010
HARRYOKE - HARRY SMITH - 15 Minutes: Personal Insights on a Brush With National Recognition
the 5th, people were already saying how they had mentioned it on the Friday show and shown clips from my house and Halifax Plantation. They played the segment in commercials all weekend and on the Saturday Early Show as well. All weekend the buzz was buzzing. I got the word out on the social networks and at my website and mailing lists to be sure anyone who wanted to see it would be able to.
THE FULL VIDEO AT YOUTUBE: CLICK HERE TO SEE DeLAND and MANHATTAN APPEARANCE
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
So You Want To Be A Karaoke Host...And You Want My Advice?
I started in the 90s...in that era, and before, it took THOUSANDS of dollars to start a music library, then buying a PA system, etc... The day I walked out the door to do my first show, I had about $7500 invested, and continued to have to reinvest money to upgrade equipment and add music to the library.
Along the way, I generated a following and years of experience.
Now, technology has replaced the archaic CD, and we are going to computer based shows, and copying and sharing song files has NEVER been easier...and is STILL just as illegal. So twice a week, or more, people want my help starting a business to compete with me with stolen, pirated music, gotten by them with little to no overhead.
If you are that person, please, dont ask for my help. I am not one to shoot myself in the foot. New karaoke hosts are popping up right and left, and none of them seem to have legal libraries. They all say they are not coming after my gigs, but guess what? My singers will be coming to your gigs, and my attendance numbers are going to fall, and my revenues generated for my employers are going to fall, and I am going to be asked to work for less money IF my show stays alive. I cannot help you do that to me.
This is my reality at this time. I am seeing this, in real time. Now at this point, if you think I am whining, feeling sorry for myself, being preachy or ridiculous, well I guess that is your right...and if you are out booking gigs (public or private) for low money, bar tabs, for the fun of it or otherwise bringing down the industry you wish to join by watering it down, then I ask you to do this... Squint and look at the competition around you and when you wonder why you cant get that many singers to your show, ask yourself how many singers are out at pirated shows. OR if you have a lot of singers at your illegal show, ask yourself where they would sing if you were not in business. THAT is probably the show suffering because of your piracy.
IF THE PLAYING FIELD IS LEVEL...and everyone spent thousands on music legally, we could all make better money and there would be far less of us out there. As long as people want to illegally compete against legal operators, the pay is going to get lower, and the attendance will get lower at each show.
And last night, another friend came to me for advice, which is the impetus of this post. Just wanted to put my opinion out there without getting all preachy, and also to reprint my stance on piracy which is posted at my website. I advised him NOT to host unless he were doing it legally. He told me whose show he wanted to buy, and I told him which host that host copied the hard drive from, and how much he wanted to copy it for me...
That post follows here (reprinted from my website):
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SHARING MUSIC:
(PREFACE: Some will read this and say I am full of crap...and if you are talking about home use or personal use, you may be right...my comments and opinion are tempered for public and professional use, as I am a public professional...THANKS!)
Many customers ask me if I want to copy their discs onto my computer…or they ask me to copy my music onto a disc for them. Both of these practices are not only illegal, but also detrimental to the industry. People say to me all the time “you have a great version of “XXXXXXXX “, can you put that on a disc for me? No I cant…because number 1) I paid for it, 2) It is likely that you will then take that disc and go to another show and sing from it, and THAT host will copy it. What benefit is there to me to not only support another hosts show illegally, but also costing the manufacturer of the disc a sale? I encourage folks that like my versions to come to my shows and sing them, LOL.
To be legal with a computer, if you work in public, you must have a legal disc for each track that you have on your computer, and be operating no more than one copy…meaning I cannot make multiple copies of my hard drive and run concurrent shows.
LARGE LIBRARIES OF MUSIC FROM THE INTERNET
Many people visit my show, see the laptop on top of my rig and say “Oh, you have a computer, you can get any song you want now” or “oh I see you switched to a laptop, so I guess you have a LOT more music now Huh?”. The answer is no. Having a computer simply means that I am playing the SAME music that I bought legally thru a computer now, instead of a player. I do still have a player to play discs, and I have a disc for each song on my computer. I am also still happy to play discs owned by my customers.
Many many hosts are switching to computers, then adding to their libraries of music with illegal tracks downloaded from the internet, or acquired thru other bootleg means such as buying or copying a preloaded hard drive. Even worse, some NEW hosts are starting with completely illegal libraries and own little to no legal karaoke music.
WHY THIS IS BAD
FOR THE HOST
You may ask “who cares?”. Well, way back when I started out, as well as other long term karaoke hosts, there were no computer players or internet downloads. CDG burning and copying was still a new technology so most all hosts had legitimate, legal karaoke music libraries. This meant having to spend a lot of money on music. You ask any legitimate host what the biggest obstacle to going into the business is, and they will tell you that it is the cost of the acquisition of music. You remove THAT cost, and all of a sudden, EVERYONE wants to be a karaoke host. Competition is always good and always welcomed… BUT, the playing field has to be level. A guy trying to be legal, buying music and paying taxes on income has to charge a bar a fair wage to make a living AND cover expenses. A guy who steals all his music and works under the table can work far cheaper and have the same profit margin…so bar owners are finding hosts willing to work FAR cheaper than legal hosts. This is causing karaoke hosts to earn less each year due to unfair competition. Also, it is frustrating to have singers criticize the host for not having a song because “so and so” has it, and you know so and so has an illegal library of 100,000 songs or more.
FOR THE BARS
There are only so many singers to support karaoke in a community. Admittedly, not everyone is a fan of the same bar…but if in a small town there are multiple hosts competing for the same singers, non of them are going to have a very successful night. A successful night is gauged by how much business the host brings to the bar owner. If the bar does not make money, they cant pay the host that much…and if the host is legal and has to charge a fair wage, they wont be around long, and will be replaced by a pirate host. If the pirate hosts did not operate, there would be less shows, more attendance at the legal shows and the bars and karaoke shows would both be more prosperous.
FOR THE SINGERS
Dwindling karaoke disc sales are a big problem in this industry. When a disc is released, it ends up on the internet and more people share it than buy it. This has forced many of the companies that make karaoke discs out of business, cutting down on the availability of songs. The biggest producer, Sound Choice, recently had 75 employees and produced 5 discs a month. Lately all of their discs have lost money, as they could not even recoup the cost of licensing and production. They have less than 10 employees now, and have slowed production to an almost standstill. They are now placing their efforts into combating piracy and recouping some losses.
MY STANCE and SUMMARY
I am choosing to operate legally. I have a smaller library than many of my competitors, but it is well thought out, and I am willing to add to it with requests and new hits. Do not ask me to share my music, and understand why I don’t have 100,000 titles even though everyone else in town seems to.
Sound Choice and other companies are getting together and have begun filing complaints in criminal court against karaoke hosts using illegal libraries. This is resulting in some pirate operations becoming legal or shutting down. Ultimately others will possibly be facing a day in court.
Thanks for your reading and understanding of my position on this subject.
Monday, May 31, 2010
BOYCOTTING BP (or any oil company for whatever reason) WILL NOT WORK or HELP...here is why...
1. ALL REFINED FUEL COMES FROM THE SAME PIPELINE. Whether it is BP, Exxon, Amoco, Valero or whoever...the liquid gasoline is all coming out of the same pipe. It is sold on the open market, but they all contract how many gallons they are putting in the supply...and there is no way to send BP gas to BPs, etc...it is all the same. SO, in reality...if you are boycotting BP for the oil spill, or Citgo for political reasons, and you drive down the street to the next station, you are buying the same gas.
2. BOYCOTTING DOES NOT HURT THE OIL COMPANIES REVENUE. If they passed a law today that made it illegal for you to buy your gas at BP, not a dollar would be lost...because they would still be putting the same amount of fuel into the fuel supply, and you would merely be buying it from somewhere else. ALSO, all the crude they produce would still be sold for manufacturing, and all the other things we use oil for in this world.
3. NOT BUYING YOUR GROCERIES FROM A BP CONVENIENCE STORE WILL NOT AFFECT BP. You would be hard pressed to find a convenience store with a BP sign in front of it that is owned by BP. Gas stations generally are leased by small companies or families. The family runs the store and the only reason the sign on the front says BP is because they have a contract with a jobber to supply the gas and possibly maintain the pumps and tanks. The lessor of the store makes very little on gas, if anything at all, as they buy at the market rate from the jobber who supplies the gas from the collective pipeline. Not buying your coffee, cigs, etc... from a BP does not hurt BP at all...just the guy who leases the store and his employees or family.
This was a similar problem when everyone was boycotting Citgos because of the political stance of the president of their country. Talking of boycotts sounds noble, and may make you feel good, but you are accomplishing nothing. If you really want to accomplish something, research ways to see that your legislators are working toward punishing the parties responsible, and getting help to the victims of the tragedy. Just a friendly heads up!!
Thursday, April 15, 2010
I hate my lawn mower... I am a fancy man.
When it needed a blade, I bought a mulching blade, brought it home and realized I had gotten the wrong size. Being a fancy man, I thought I would just get a brand new lawn mower, and retire the Murray.
I got a really nice Craftsman mower from Sears, with a bulletproof Briggs and Stratton engine. I gave away the Murray, needing a blade and a string, on Freecycle. I have never started my love affair with this mower. I starts temperamentally, the air cleaner constantly clogs, the screw holding the air cleaner on bent...the air cleaner is cracked...and little other niggling problems.
Recently my blade bent, so I went out and bought the identical blade to the one that is currently on it...matched the part numbers and all, no guess work.
Today I decided to cut the yard, so I went out and attempted to replace the blade. Removed the old one and guess what...the new one will not fit...not even close. SAME PART NUMBER...this is the correct blade...but it will not fit. I reattached the old blade to make do for todays chores and after getting the mower started, it vibrated HELLACIOUSLY!! The vibration was so bad that the deck cracked...or the deck was previously cracked and that contributed to the problem...but either way, I have a practically new Craftsman mower that will be going away ASAP. I must now find a new lawn mower.
Grrr.
Friday, February 19, 2010
5 Minute Professor - Warren Buffett
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One of the richest men in America. The Sage of Omaha. He was born August 30, 1930. He filed his first tax return during WWII 1943 – He listed the cost of his bike and his watch as business expenses related to his newspaper route. He was 13.
He was not born poor… He was the son of Howard Buffett – a ...US Representative from Nebraska from 1942 – 1948 and again from 1950 -52. Howard was opposed to the Korean War because he felt that (quote) Even if it were desirable, America is not strong enough to police the world by military force. (1950) Warren went to the Wharton Business school at Upenn for two years and completed his BS in Economics at the University of Nebraska and then went to Columbia for his Masters.
He started working at his father’s investment firm in 1951 .. started his own partnership in 1956 and was a millionaire (at least on paper by 1962 – he was 32 years old. Warren married Susan Thompson in 1952.
In 1977, Susan decided she wanted to pursue a career as a singer after Neil Sedaka convinced her to move to S...an Francisco… but the Buffetts stayed married until her death in 2004. They lived separately but vacationed together. Before moving away… Susan introduced Warren to Astrid Menks. Astrid moved in just after Susan moved away and eventually Christmas cards would be signed by Warren, Susie and Astrid… After Susie died in 2004 – Bono played at her funeral, Warren married Astrid in 2006 in a small ceremony.
www.muckety.com – shows you how people and organizations are inter-connected. Astrid’s only connection is Warren … Angelina Jolie
Susan had owned about 2.2 % of Warren biggest venture Berkshire Hathaway -- she was worth $3 Billion and was the 153rd richest person in America. Berkshire Hathaway made news this week. ...This enormous conglomerate bought out the rest of Burlington Northern Santa Fe railroad and replaced it in the S & P 500. That is noteworthy for a few reasons… numbers one --- it had to execute a 50 -1stock split on January 21st to qualify as a readily available and liquid security. It only splits its B Class shares they are trading today at about $76 a share – that would have been $3800 pre-split. And that isn’t the big number – the Class A shares which did not split … are trading over $114,000 per share …
Financial info update -- Outstanding shares – 1.55 Billion only 1.12 Billion of these are in the float --- that means that the company hold 430,000 shares. Since there are 1.55 million shares and they trade at 114,000 each the Market capitalization --- also called market Cap --- 176.99 Billion
Warren has started to... give away over 85% of his vast wealth in 2006… he donated the bulk of it to the Bill and Melinda Gates foundation… the foundation is the largest holder of BRK A shares --- they have 77 million shares … next largest shareholder – Warren – he has a scant 1.5 million… and then the next largest holder -- a guy named Stephen Burke – he has 5.
Berkshire Hathaway is not very popular as an addition to the S & P in part because Warren does not pay dividends … this addition effectively lowers the dividend return of S & P funds by over ½ of one percent.
Berkshire Hathaway started out as a textile firm … originally founded in 1839 in Rhode Island … through mer...gers it became Berkshire Hathaway in 1955 .. Warren saw that it was undervalued and bought it in 1962 and then started buying not just stock but entire companies and including them under the Berkshire hathaway umbrella… Berkshire currently wholly owns 37 companies including – GEICO – since 1996, Dairy Queen, Pampered Chef, Fruit of the Loom (2002), Business Wire (2006), Helzberg Diamonds, Burlington Northern Santa Fe – last week … they also own 13% of American Express, almost 10% of Anheuser- Busch and Coca-Cola … as well as 18% of the Washington Post.
1) James William (call me Jimmy) Buffett is no relation … He was born Dec 25, 1946 in Pascagoula, MS. Jimmy is the poorer Buffett though .. he only manages to generate about $100 million per year in album sales and licensing arrangements. So to supplement his income… how many consecutive years has Jimmy been out on... tour at least once.
26 years … since 1984 and he plans to go out this year as well … with the Under the Big Top Tour. Starting on the 20th in Jacksonville… Playing the Amway Arena on the 25th.
2) His highest charting single is Margaritaville … his only Number 1 album to date was 2004’s License to Chill… His latest album is “Buffet Hotel” without the second t that both Warren and Jimmy have in their name … A buffet is an 18th century French term for food laid out for self-service… it was named for the furn...iture that it was laid out on. I Japan – a buffet is referred to by what name for 8th to 13th Century European Explorers who exacted tribute from ports as far flung as the Caspian sea, Gibraltar, Iceland, Greenland and a place they called – Vinland.
Vikings
3) One of my greatest childhood memories of the 23rd state involve an ice cream buffet at a restaurant called The Viking. Can you name the 23rd state… it joined the Union in 1820… only borders one state … and is the only state with a one-syllable name.
Maine
4) The longest US state names have 5 syllables… can ...you name any of these 6 states. Two sets are neighbors, three are original colonies, One joined the Union during the Civil War. One was briefly a Republic, One was founded by the French.
California, Louisiana, North Carolina, South Carolina, West Virginia and Pennsylvania
5) Three of these states , LA, NC and SC seceded from the Union in 1861 despite pleading from what Illinois Senator who came in second in the popular vote in the Presidential election of 1860?
Stephen Douglas was on over 29% of the votes cast but only won 4 Electoral College votes. In spite of his support of slave...ry as an economic institution, he did not believe that secession was legal. Douglas died in 1861.
6) Twelve states honor Stephen Douglas with counties named in his honor, including which state … whose Capital is named for an 1860 Presidential rival.
Nebraska , Lincoln
Friday, February 5, 2010
Bad Business 101
THEM: Hello?
ME: Uh, yes is this ****** ****** Service?
THEM: Yeah
ME: Oh...say, I found one of your signs off your trucks in the road and saved it. I know how much they cost and thought you might like it back.
THEM: Oh yeah, thought I saw it go missing.
ME: Well, I live at ********* and have it here if you want it. THere is an old white van in my driveway, I will just put the sign on my van so you can come get it anytime.
THEM: OK.
ME: BTW, since I have your number here...I am wondering, do you sell (INSERT BIG TICKET ITEM)??
THEM: Yeah.
ME: I am in the immediate market for one...if you want to give me a price, perhaps we can do some business.
THEM: OK.
ME: Alright then...
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Never took my name, verified my number or address. I still have the sign and am still anxious to spend money on something that will be close to $1000 dollars or more that he will not be a viable candidate for. Tsk Tsk.